Two years ago, my wife passed away. She fought a battle for many years, and ultimately, the disease won. I adored my wife. We were married for 23 years and losing her was hurtful beyond words. I have two daughters who are 20 and 16. Not long after my wife passed away Thomas Phillips was about to launch the first UTC. I figured, ‘What the hell.’ I desperately needed the distraction. The results were astounding and the message I sent my daughters was profound. Despite going through an unbearable time, I had the ability to change. The process set a tone in our household that proved anything was possible if a commitment was made. The best part of the story goes back to April 24, 2009; I competed in my first bodybuilding competition. Even writing this now gives me goose-bumps. I was 50 years old and in the best shape of my life. I have lifelong friendships and a sense of confidence that will never be taken away. Yes, I terribly miss my wife and I always will. Although life is different, I am happy. I’m working hard to move forward. I can’t imagine what my life would be like if not for the decision to embark on this remarkable adventure.
—Jeff Strumeire